Tired, exhausted and distracted with life… that I have neglected to write for you and for me. That underlying passion that sparks my soul when I use my thoughts and words to connect with my life… it has been simmering beneath the breeze.
But I am back, still tired, still distracted, but ready to reflect once again. I have been busy with farming, business life, new business ventures, voluntary activities and now my health has taken priority. Why is it so hard for women to put themselves first and value their own health status? Usually, it is when our health fails us, that we decide to make it more of a priority.
Another sinus surgery to follow-up from last year, has left me feeling tired, as my office work started to pile up. Starting to get back on top of it, yet distracted by means of too many roles to participate in. I have been reflecting on the important things in life. My health, my family and my passion.
I look back over the years… proud of success, learning from failures and connecting with many people, making a difference in this world. Success comes in so many forms. But so many people focus on success being an overall goal. This is so untrue and can leave people feeling unnecessary disappointment.
Success is all the little things that you do throughout every day of your life. Success is teaching your child good manners. Success is ensuring your partner feels loved. Success is bringing happiness into someone else’s life. The small things that good people just do without a conscious thought… that is real success.
So rather than focusing on the happy marriage, the new car, the dream home or the ideal job that you will get one day… focus on those little successful events throughout your day. And remember that disappointment or failure is just a lesson to teach us there is another way or something better around the corner.
So today I share with you a photo taken in 2010 from another farming property of mine. A farm that holds many memories of my sons teenage years. A farm called “Kokoda” between Inverell and Glen Innes NSW.
A farm that brings me joy when I reflect… but also sadness for a time when my husband had broken a vertebrae in his back as a result of a Quadbike farm injury, only 4 years ago. A serious injury that my dear husband has now thankfully overcome.
Life happens, injuries happen… but it is how we get through it and how we move forward that is important. It is during this very stressful time that I realised how lucky I really was. Lucky to have a loving husband and lucky to have 2 sons to support us through this tough time.
Life will always have ups and downs… for each and every one of us. This photo that I share is a reflection upon times gone by and a reminder to just appreciate the beauty and tranquil surrounds.
Rural Reflection #21…
I love this photo for the good memories it arouses in me. The beautiful natural green pastures with a sprinkling of white clover. The memories of our Hereford cattle beneath those trees chewing their cuds. Memories of family mustering and enjoying each others company. Good memories stay with us, wherever we are.
So as life moves on, our memories are retained within, and we pursue new chapters within our lives. When you reflect on your life… you really can see how successful you are every single day. Cherish those experiences and enjoy what life brings your way. You never know what is around the corner.
“Success is not in what you have,
but who you are”.
~Bo Bennett, Author