Why do we feel that we must fit in a neat little box in society? Be the norm… follow procedures from societal pressure… and be who you think you should be. NO!
Be unique. Be an individual. Make your own choices. Be a leader. Have your own thoughts. Individuality is what we all should strive for. Make yourself the person you want to be. Be the person that you want to see in this world making a difference.
Own who you really are.
I was reminded tonight of the pressure that we put on ourselves if we make different choices to others. My friend in her forties felt that she was dragging the chain in the relationship department and family scene. There is no right or wrong in when we choose to settle down, to start a family, to choose a career.
Each of us are different, we have different experiences and opportunities. That is what makes us all interesting. It would be boring if we were all the same. Imagine that… we would have nothing to talk about. Nothing to share. Our perceived imperfections would not be of value.
It is our own mindest that limits our choices and allows us to become our own burden at times. So many of us at some point in our lives, probably many times… feel that we can’t cut it… or we don’t fit in. We need to give ourselves a break and appreciate the special things that are individual to us all.
We must make our own choices that feel right for us. And enjoy life. Seeing yourself through the eyes of your loved one… is a good place to start. That love exists for a reason. The love of a mother or father. The love of a partner or friend. See yourself and your fine qualities through their eyes.
Treat yourself like you would treat your best friend. Love and appreciate why you are different. It is those differences that make you special and will help choose your path in life. Remember there is no right or wrong when or how we do things… if we just be kind to ourselves and respect those around us.
Take care, Karen.
“EMBRACE YOUR INDVIDUALITY.
Love what you love without worrying about judgement.”
~ Author Unknown
Lost my mojo many years back. After a soul-wrenching search, I have found it, hiding within. Our life journey amongst the changes, work, partners, children… sometimes we just lose it for a while. We just need to believe we can resurrect it and the happiness within is life transforming.
I have dedicated this year to get my health back on track. I took control of my journey with the guidance of a few health professionals. Dealing with a sleep disorder, a prolonged operation, chronic pain, the stress of farming during drought times and the related complications of it all… no wonder I ended up with depression and anxiety. But through careful treatment and my inner pledge to myself, life is getting back on track. More so, my ability to deal with life’s bumpy journey has been restored.
Inspired and optimistic today in my follow-up with the Mindset Strategist. In just 2 appointments, her practice has helped transform my life completely. Amazed by the results of her techniques and how quick it worked. I recommend Katie Godden with her enthusiasm, positivity and guidance. This modern intuitive technique of aligning our sub-conscious thoughts with real life, letting go of our emotional baggage and giving us the confidence to move forward… is so unbelievably powerful and enriching.
Like many women, I struggled with confidence and low self-esteem over the years. My thoughts have now shifted, and I have found my inner mojo again. That influence and personal charisma that we all have inside of us and the confidence to let it shine. Quietly but proudly, I like the “new” ME that I have found and so excited to take on life by the horns.
Remember, believe in yourself because that’s where the magic begins.
You are worth it!
Take care, Karen.
P.S. Please watch this video, it is just beautiful and sums up all our lives.
Video Credit: CIMORELLI ~ YouTube
I found it, the real smile that was misplaced for a while. Thank you Katie for shifting my mindset to a better place today. A place where contentment and inner peace reside. With all of our emotional baggage, the stress of daily life and the burden of holding it all together, just somehow we do get overwhelmed.
To rewind…I for one, never like to ask for help or admit that just maybe my inner strength is not enough to handle it all. After reaching out, I have finally realised… it is NOT a sign of weakness to need help with your mental health. Depression and anxiety had crept up on me, not because I was weak, but because I tried to be too strong for too long. Our personal perception is distorted and it just needs tweaking a little.
In hindsight I can now say that it was the best thing I have ever done. I am feeling like I am at the top of my game. I have accepted the help and got back on track. If any of you are feeling like life is pulling you along and your passion has been muzzled, please take my advice and talk to your GP for options.
As my physical and mental health are both on the mend, I am passionate more than ever to discover my true potential. Personal growth is what fascinates me, so today I took a big step.
A somewhat skeptical visit to a local Mindset Strategist to learn some mindset techniques and personal growth, proved to be a major epiphany. The most positive experience of my entire life. Today was the day… the day I take back control of my life and my emotions. While working with Katie, I have felt the load lighten and feel free again. Her ability to guide me to let go of those negative feelings from the past, learn the lesson and build strength to go forward, has completely amazed me. Her techniques were non-invasive to my privacy yet powerful in the result… in only 2 hours. I look forward to the follow-up next week.
I love this feeling of being on the road to recovery and I love the person within that I have found.
Take care, Karen
“A SMILE IS HAPPINESS YOU’LL FIND RIGHT UNDER YOUR NOSE”
~ Tom Wilson